Owning a dog can teach a child a lot of things. For me, my Labrador Retriever, Sandy, has given me a new perspective.
Before we had Sandy, my family owned two dogs, four cats, and a
rabbit (I think we were over the city limit). Needless to say, mom
wasn't very thrilled when dad came home from work with yet another stray
animal he had found. At the time, Sandy was a yellow ball of puppy-fun.
She especially liked the cereal shelf and the cat's food. When she got
older (and bigger), Sandy discovered she liked the trashcan, too. Mom
wasn't thrilled about this, either; but she has since grown to love
Sandy anyway.
As the youngest in my family, Sandy came into my life at just
the right time. Older siblings were moving on, right as life's larger
problems were fading into view; Sandy was the simple, steady friend I
needed. As her owner, I learned how to train her to be a (pretty)
well-behaved pooch, and I came to understand how something as
straight-forward as a dog could be such a wonderful companion. Now,
about three years after first meeting her, I look back and see what a
great friend she has been, and the unique perspective I have gained
from knowing her.
Every time I greet Sandy and she gives me that unfailing,
doggy-smile, I feel a special warmth, joy, and pride. I get this same
feeling of love when I give her a command and she eagerly obeys. Even
when she disobeys and I reprimand her, I am proud when she strives to
please me. To her I am her master, and she loves me for it.
One day I had that classic “Ah-Ha!” moment when mulling over my
relationship with Sandy and my relationship with God. Yes, He placed us
on earth with the instruction to “lord over the animals.” With Sandy, I
was doing just that. My thoughts took a step further when I considered
how God “lords” over us, His children and His “flock.” Just as God loves
us, I love my dog, my companion, and my friend. To me, my relationship
with Sandy is a simplified reflection of my walk with God.
Shouldn't I eagerly greet my Lord when He is near? Shouldn't I
eagerly do as He commands, just to please Him? Shouldn't I eagerly
strive to correct myself when I am wrong, because He is my God and
master, and because we are told to love Him above all others? Sandy does
not “eagerly” do these things because she feels obligated to, but
because she truly learned to trust me and love me through knowing who I
am. Through knowing and walking with Him, we can learn to trust and love
Him, too.
Granted, at times when I step out of the room Sandy indulges in
the trashcan, even though I have told her repeatedly not to, even
though she actively knows that when I return I won't be happy. I've
witnessed her do this, and it's kind of funny how, while pulling
napkins, coffee beans, and empty bottles from the trash her body
language clearly shows “guilt.” She can't stand it. It struck me one
day: don't we do this, too? We can't always see God, or recognize his
presence; in those moments temptation often strikes. When I re-enter the
room where Sandy is shamefully gorging herself, her reaction
immediately says, “I'm so sorry! (Thank goodness you're here! I couldn't
help but eat the trash when you weren't around. I couldn't resist on my
own!)”
As her master I discipline her, but only enough to remind her
of the consequences to bad behavior and to maintain that level of authority. Like
children, dogs thrive with clear and just boundaries, and lurking
consequences. They like the structure and security that comes with
order.
Sandy loves me very much, and it shows in her actions.
Throughout the day she follows me around the house, simply wanting to be
with me. At night when she's drifting off to sleep I witness her trust
in me; she nods off as I stroke her fur, knowing she is safe and under
my care. Sandy is my dog and friend; I love her and she loves me. Like I
do with many of my friends, I try and model myself after the other. For
me, Sandy's eager and unfailing love is a simple reminder of how my
relationship with God could be. He loves me, and I love Him. It's that
simple.
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